Mar 10, 2014 - Kind of Random, Music    No Comments

Lent 2014 (Day 6): Music for a manic Monday

Dear Pope Francis,

Today was kind of a rough day. One of those days when everything just seems to be conspiring against my contentment.

But, we are not promised easy days or a life without a few bumps. It’s how we handle it that matters.

On days like this I find music really helpful. Different days require different music.

Today, it was this song from Peter Mayer that restored my equilibrium.

Here it is as a link

if the video doesn’t play for you.

Here’s to a good night’s sleep and a better Tuesday!

Your friend,

Kevin

Mar 9, 2014 - Vatican    No Comments

Lent 2014 (First Sunday): Pssst…Something is rotten in Oakland

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Dear Pope Francis,

So, I know you had all the bishops home to the mother ship recently, but I think someone wasn’t listening.

Apparently the new Bishop of Oakland, Bill Edens, has dismissed two much loved priests at Newman Hall Parish without any consultation with parishioners. He also did it without any explanation.

I think someone needs a phone call.

Your friend,

Kevin

Mar 8, 2014 - Kind of Random    1 Comment

Lent 2014 (Day 4): International Women’s Day

Dear Pope Francis,

Today is International Women’s Day. I’m not sure it’s appropriate for me, as a man, to write on that. So, I thought I’d share words of wisdom from a couple of important women.

The first is Sr. Elizabeth Johnson, whom I wrote about yesterday. When asked why, as a woman and a feminist, she chooses to stay in the Church, she replied:

Quote from Elizabeth Johnson

 

The second is from Malala Yousafzai, the young woman from Pakistan who was shot in the head because she dared to demand education for girls.

Malala Yousafzai quote

 

I think both of these quotes bear reading today.

Your friend,

Kevin

(P.S. Thanks to Rev. Daniel and Kaya Oakes for these photos.)

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Mar 7, 2014 - Uncategorized    1 Comment

Lent 2014 (Day 3): Sr. Elizabeth Johnson

Sr. Elizabeth Johnson

Sr. Elizabeth Johnson

Dear Pope Francis,

Lent is a time of reflection and contemplation focused on where we are in our lives and whether we are in right relationship with the Divine.

I can think of no better model for this than feminist theologian Sr. Elizabeth Johnson. She’s written several books, most recently¬†Ask the Beasts: Darwin and the God of Love. She is probably most known for Quest for the Living God, which earned popular and academic acclaim, but annoyed a few bishops. (In my mind that makes it an even more important read.)

Buzzfeed, which is an online “news” site known more for sensational headlines that drive traffic, has published a really good interview with Sr. Johnson. I’d suggest making it your lectio divina choice for the day.

Your friend,

Kevin

(P.S. those book links go to Amazon and if you make a purchase I get a little money to keep the tapers burning around here.)

Mar 6, 2014 - Uncategorized    2 Comments

Lent 2014 (Day 2): Giving up what’s weighing me down

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Photo credit: http://morguefile.com/creative/krosseel

Dear Pope Francis,

Though Lent officially started yesterday, it feels like today is the real start of the Lenten season. Now is when we start to really focus in on our sins, our transgressions, the really awful stuff that we do that we need to get rid of, and just generally how awful we are.

Wait. What?

Yeah, I’m going with a bit of a different approach to Lent this year. As I wrote yesterday about Earth Wednesday, I see Lent as a time for reflection, yes, but maybe not a time to beat myself up. Instead, I’m going to focus on giving things up that might be weighing me down.

I know that I have habits and ways of seeing the world and my place in it that aren’t supportive. Sometimes they can get in the way of things. The image that springs to mind, for me, is the Tinman from the Wizard of Oz. When he meets Dorothy, he can’t even speak because he’s stood out in the rain and rusted shut. Only when Dorothy oils his joints is he free to speak and move and join the journey down the Yellow Brick Road.

I see Lent as a time to explore where my spiritual joints have gone rusty. Attending to those and maybe making some changes, or adding new habits, is like applying a spiritual oil can. It loosens things up again so I can be present in my day-to-day life in a new way, and continue on my journey a bit lighter and with a spring in my step.

As Lent approached this year, I got to thinking about some practices I wanted to incorporate and maybe some things I wanted to let go of over the next 40 days. The key here is that I’m not going to weigh myself down again with different obligations. That’s something I can easily do. For example, I thought I might get up an extra hour early so I could do the Daily Office and reflect on that day’s readings. Then I realized I already get up quite early to do the work I do, so that probably would not be supportive. I find I need to be truthful with myself about what will be supportive for me, and not some ideal that won’t serve me at all.

So, here’s what I’ve decided on for Lent 2014:

- At some point in the day, I will take some time out for contemplation. I’m always looking for ways to bring more silence to my daily life. I might read and reflect on that day’s readings, or I might meditate.

- I’m going to cut back a bit on my social media use. I won’t be eliminating it altogether, but I will be a bit more intentional about it.

- I’d like to post every day to this blog. I haven’t always kept up with my tagline. That’s OK. Things happen. But, for Lent, I’d like to post daily.

- I’d like to be more intentional around the food I consume. So, for Lent, I’m not going to eat out, unless I’m sharing a meal with friends. That way it’s both a giving up and an adding to. I’ve been sick off and on since Christmas, culminating in a rather nasty bout of pneumonia, and I’ve got a bit of cabin fever and a feeling of disconnection from my friends. (Hint to my friends: I am free for dinner in Lent!).

So, there they are, three things I’m going to attend to during Lent as a way of letting go of what might be weighing me down.

I will report on how this goes (I’m writing every day…I’ll need material).

Feel free to share in the comments what supportive things you’re doing during Lent to lift any burdens you might be unnecessarily carrying.

Your friend,

Kevin

Mar 5, 2014 - Uncategorized    2 Comments

Lent 2014 (Day 1): Earth Wednesday

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Earth from space. Photo credit: http://morguefile.com/creative/pschubert

Dear Pope Francis,

I should probably disclose that the title of this post, Earth Wednesday, is not something I came up with. Alexandra Kovats, who is far wiser than I can probably ever hope to be, shared it with me during a recent conversation. She said that she refers to Ash Wednesday as Earth Wednesday, and I immediately latched onto the concept, for it is truly inspired.

I’ve been puzzling it over ever since we spoke. Ash Wednesday has such a ponderous and rather depressing reputation. The ashes on our foreheads, we’re told, serve to remind us that we come from ashes and dust, and to ashes and dust we shall, one day, return. Cheery, isn’t it? So motivating and inspiring. Let’s all think on our eventual incineration.

Earth Wednesday, though, now that is something that speaks to me in a powerful way. We all come from Earth, and to Earth we shall one day return. It’s the came concept as ashes, but there’s a reminder there of the bounty of Earth that we share in between our birth and death. Life is hard and painful, and suffering is something we all experience. We also experience sunshine, warm breezes, and waking up each day to the gift of life. This is what evoking Earth Wednesday brings up for me: the balance and hope present in life. Isn’t that what the Resurrection is all about?

There is more to Earth Wednesday, at least for me. It serves as a reminder that I am part of the greater Earth community, and that I live side by side with the other-than-human occupants of our planet. I exist in tandem with all of Earth’s inhabitants, as their equal in Creation. This is something that is so easy to forget, particularly when we spend our days in front of computer screens, driving cars, and going in and out of climate-controlled buildings. For the most part, except in extreme events, even bad weather is just something we endure when we have to go outside, not a true force in our lives. (Though this is shifting, I think, as climate change makes its reality felt more and more.) Trees and flowers are nice to look at, but we consider them ornamental and subject to our own whims. When we need their habitat for something, we just pull them out. The same goes for animals and insects: we eat some for food, swat away others, poison still more, and destroy where the rest live. We have become so settled in our way of thinking that the rest of the Earth community is just one large untapped resource.

I need the reminder of Earth Wednesday so I realize, once again, that I’m not only mortal, but also just a small part of creation. I’m given the gift of perspective and a chance to reconsider how I exist in the world.

When I receive my ashes today I will be thinking “I come from Earth. I am Earth. I will go back to the Earth.” For me, I think this is a good way to begin the Lenten season.

What about you? What do you think about when receiving your ashes, or on Earth Wednesday?

Your friend,

Kevin

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